Men In Heaven:   When everybody on earth was dead and waiting to enter Heaven, God appeared and said, “I want the men to make two lines. One line is for the men who were true heads of their household, and the other is for men who were dominated by their women. I want all the women to report to St. Peter.

Soon the women were gone to St. Peter and there were two lines of men. The line of men who were dominated by their women seemed 100 miles long. In the line of men who were true heads of their household there stood only one man.

God said to the men in the long line. You men should be ashamed of yourselves. I created you to be the heads of your households! You have been disobedient and have not fulfilled your purpose! Of all of you only one man obeyed. Learn from him.”

God turned to the one man. ” How did you manage to be the only one in this line?”  The man replied,: ” Lord, my wife told me to stand here.”

Honor our dead not with shrines but by your positive life actions!  ” ….it is a question of breaking free from your history, even when you hear in your mind the cries of your brother and sister. To stay in the things of the past, it prevents you from changing. ”  Dr. Antoine Rwego, Rwanda Genocide Survivor.